I have never been prouder of anyone.
As for me — I keep the good dishes out now.
I used to save them for holidays. After that Sunday, I decided that was foolish. You don’t save the good things for someday. You use them for the people you love, now, while you have them.
Tyler brought someone home again this past winter.
A different young man. Gentle, funny, a little shy. He brought Tyler’s favorite cookies for me, unprompted, because Tyler had mentioned once that I liked them. He asked me about my garden and actually listened to the answer.
I watched him the whole evening, the way I’ll watch everyone Tyler ever brings home, because that’s my job and I’m good at it now.
He was good to my son. And good for him.
He passed.
When they left, Tyler hung back at the door for a second, and he grinned at me — that grin, the one I hadn’t seen in a long time and now get to see again.
